well according to Miss Oprah Winfrey, " San Jose is top spot for women over 35 to find a man" ! You don't believe me? Well here's the article. Everyone can make fun of San Jose all they want but its a cool place. Thats how I met Neil! IN SAN JOSE!! The Article: Courtesy of the Merc Single men of the South Bay, you have an unlikely new best friend. Say hello to Oprah! Her TV show on Friday featured a new survey ranking the best U.S. cities for women over 35 to find a guy. San Jose came in No. 1, beating out those other well-known romantic hot spots Salt Lake City and Arlington, Texas. So iron your best pair of khakis, gentlemen! Because if Oprah's Midas-like effect on pretty much anything she mentions holds true, there soon will be a stampede westward that rivals 1849. Only this time, there will be waves of single women instead of bearded men carrying pickaxes. The research, by Men's Health magazine and presented on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" b...